Should I Feel This Way?
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Should I Feel This Way?
Topic Author: Christopher Papst
Posted: 10:26 AM Jun 13, 2009
Replies Posted: 12 comments
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Back in March, she got laid off from her job. She was a college recruiter for a local accounting firm that instituted a hiring freeze. And when a company does not hire, why do they need recruiters? So, they laid off a bunch of people, my wife being one.

Fast forward two months and she gets a great new job. The only "catch" is that she has to go to Minneapolis for a month, for training. Upon hearing the news she got a new job, I was incredibly excited for her! Upon hearing she was going to Minnesota for a month, I was incredibly excited for me!

I obviously love my wife and greatly enjoy spending time with her. She makes me happy beyond belief. But the idea of not having to make the bed, clean, do laundry or spend time cooking an edible meal she'll actually eat after I am finished with work, was near nirvana. I could fish every night; watch whatever I wanted on television; change what few plans I had on a whim, without having to check "our" schedule. I don't know if freedom is the right word. But it sure seems to apply.

Is this wrong of me? I have expressed my joy to some in our newsroom and they look at me in disgust. If it makes it any better, this week I did start to miss her.

What do you think? Do you get a little excited when your significant other heads out of town?

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Posted by: LDS Location: Fitchburg
I'm late to the game responding, but hell yea I get excited when my husband goes out of town. I love him; we've been together for 12 years (married for 8) and have two kids, but I still get giddy at the thuoght of ME Time.

Posted by: Lacey No, I do not believe you should feel that way.

Posted by: brenda Well how "cute" you are! We all love to have our alone time to just be...! But yes you'll miss her! From the woman's perspective, if she's not exhaused after a long day, most women love hotels! No laundry, no cleaning, room service... even in bed if you want! How dreamy! But that gets old too. Being from the twin cities... I'll bet she is enjoying the shopping and the "mega mall" oops did I say too much? I'm sure she misses you... so have a good time on your mini vacation... miss your wife and let her know so!!! But be sure you have the sheets changed, laundry done, house cleaned ( even if you hire help) before she gets home... and treat her to a welcome home bath and a wonderful "home made" dinner as she'll be tired of eating out! And you'll reap BIG rewards as thanks!! "wink wink"

Posted by: JaRs Location: Madison
And I'm sure she is enjoying being away from you as much as you are her! LOL Just because one is married doesn't mean you need to be together every single minute. (For the record, I've been married 34 years.)

Posted by: Anonymous There is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone for a time. It makes the reuniting make you closer. Enjoy your time alone, you will miss her at times. If you want her gone more often, then that will become a problem. Everyone needs their space from time to time. Good Topic!

Posted by: Mark Location: Madison
Off topic, I just want to point out to everyone what a good neighbor Chris is. He was coming back from the gym yesterday and stopped to help one of our neighbors load a TV stand into her car. It's a little thing but, after living in Chicago for 10 years, it's nice to see people here still do that stuff....Thanks By the way, it's OK to feel that way but you'll probably end up making the bed, etc. anyway. Have fun fishing

Posted by: Made me laugh When the cats are away, the mice will play. Does this sound familiar? Well, it should! I think you will find yourself missing your wife, especially when you realize all the little things she may/may not do. This may be a good time to have a "guys night" at your place!

Posted by: Mrs. Location: Sun Prairie
I know exactly how you feel! My hubbie used to go on the road for his work. He would be gone all week and home on the weekends. It was heaven all week. Now he's retired and home all the time. Oh, how I wish for the freedom of the week. I could watch what I wanted on tv. Things were where they are suposed to be. So, I understand you all the way. I love the hubbie and would never trade him but I do miss my alone time.

Posted by: Packer Fan Location: WI
Absolutely. I believe that a few days to do whatever you want without your significant other is good for a marriage. I love my wife too, but I enjoy some time to just do whatever I want too. Actually, I will be gone for a week for a residency this summer, but it sounds like it will be all work and little play.

Posted by: loser Location: madison
So...you aren't even going to miss her? Are you going to spend some time with her up in the cities?

Posted by: Kathy Location: Dane county
I don't think it is wrong for you to think the way you do. I think it does a couple good to get away from each other oncein awhile. My hubby goes fishing every year with his buddies for 2 weeks.While he is gone i have little bit of breathing room and hang out with friends. We always do something together each summer for a week. It all works out for us!!!

Posted by: local Location: dane co
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"... though I suggest you keep up on the cleaning and laundry, otherwise you'll wear yourself out the day before she returns...

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