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Friday, May 23, 2008 --- 3:50 p.m.

The letter below was written by Amanda Miller, fiancee of Joel Marino who was tragically murdered on January 28th. This letter was provided to the Madison Police Department who was asked to share it with the community.

"Joel Marino was the love of my life. We had been happily dating and planning our lives together until he was taken from me on January 28, 2008. Joel was a compassionate, attentive, and sincere person who possessed a contagious enthusiasm for life. Joel was my first introduction to the city of Madison. I was a nursing student living in Dubuque, Iowa, when we began dating. Each time I made a trip to Madison, Joel became my personal tour guide. He loved that Madison was a city in which so many cultures, artists, musicians and academics were embraced. After graduation, I was easily persuaded to move to Madison and I have been proud to call this city my home ever since.

It is through our conversations about work that I know Joel had a great deal of respect and admiration for the medical community within Madison. Joel was an EMT in college, and then later continued his passion for the medical profession, as he worked with patients needing pacemakers and ICDs. Joel had the opportunity to work with physicians in all of the hospitals in Madison. I know that Joel recognized the importance of each facility and how it helped to serve the community.

As an E.R. nurse working in Madison, I am intimately aware of the procedures and protocols that exist to save lives in an emergency. I would like to thank those that cared for Joel during his last hours. I can't say enough about the brave citizens who called 911. The 911 dispatcher was professional and efficient in guiding those that called to assist Joel. I want to thank the EMS team and first responders that transported Joel and began working to save his life. Working as an E.R. nurse in Madison, I am confident that Joel was taken to the only facility that would have been able to effectively care for him due to the trauma his body had suffered. The UW Hospital Trauma Center did everything they could for Joel and he was treated by an outstanding medical team. There should be no doubt that Joel was given the best possible care and that each decision made in the process to save his life was done appropriately.

I believe that through the tragic loss of Joel, Brittany Zimmerman and Kelly Nolan our community needs to work together to find answers. I believe that by placing blame we distract from finding the answers we need to bring justice for Joel, Brittany and Kelly. I'm hoping that for the sake of those that loved Joel, the media will not play or sensationalize the 911 call made by the brave citizens who found him. Out of respect for those lost and their families, I hope that as a community, we can move beyond incidental details that do nothing to progress the ongoing investigations. I'm asking my fellow citizens to assist by simply being conscientious and to watch out for the safety of their neighbors, friends and family. I'm confident that as a community we can find answers that will help us put these murders to rest and regain the sense of security we lost.

I never thought I would have to imagine a life in Madison without Joel. But, I am committed to this community, as Joel was in his lifetime. Joel was an amazing man who left behind a powerful example for all of us on how to live our lives. This tragedy not only affects those that knew and loved Joel, but resonates with an entire community. For that reason, I'm asking anyone who has information on Joel's murder or any of these murders, to please contact the Madison Police Department or Crime Stoppers.

Thank you,

Amanda Miller"

The Madison Police Department remains committed to the solving of this homicide. A reward fund of more than $45,000 has been established for those with information leading to the arrest and conviction of th e person or persons responsible for the death of Joel Marino. Callers may contact Crime Stoppers at 266-6014.

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 --- 3:45 p.m.

TRIBUTE TO JOEL MARINO

"The killer of Joel Marino should know about the life he stole from so many people. Joel's ashes have been laid to rest near his mother, who died from cancer at 40 years of age, with him his talents and caring that would have given so much to so many.

The City of Madison has lost one of its young citizens who loved the city. Joel was working so hard to protect the quality of the waters of Monona Bay and the home he loved so dearly on the Bay. This project is still going on.

He cared medically for so many patients suffering from heart problems and was working with doctors to bring hope and a new love with them. His coworkers found him a joy to work with as he traveled to many hospitals from Wausau to Lacrosse, Oshkosh to Madison, and as far south as Dubuque.

It is ironic that Joel would be stabbed through the heart to cause his death, which was the special part of his work to save lives.

The great love of his life was his music, and he was more than willing to provide his piano or his guitar for family get-togethers, nights by the fireside at Eagle River, weddings for friends or just playing background music while everyone talked about life and its meaning.

His family loved him deeply, and has been devastated by this murder, and will never recover from this senseless act of evil.

As his grandmother, I have watched him grow into this beautiful young man. He called me on my 75th birthday to wish me a happy day, and as we were talking he said, "Grandma I have to go now, but I'll call you right back! In a short time after he said, "I love you," he was found in the alley just barely alive.

Where does a person filled with such hate to do such a thing come from? If you have any information on this person please contact the police who are investigating this crime. Don't let Joel die in vain or let someone be free to destroy another special person like Joel.

I only wish I could have Joel call me and say, "Hi Grandma, I'm calling you back."

Betty J. Parman
Joel Marino's grandmother

The Madison Police Department is committed to finding Joel's killer, and anyone with information about his death is urged to call Madison Crime Stoppers at 608-266-6014. Callers can remain anonymous.

he Madison Police Department would like to remind citizens of the more than $45,000 reward being offered to anyone who can help identify the person responsible for the murder of 31-year-old Joel Marino.

Joel was stabbed inside his West Shore Drive home on January 28, 2008. He was found in an alley between his house and Park Street around 1:20 p.m. The loss of Joel has been profound. His grandmother, Betty Parman, wrote the following:

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Posted by: Anonymous Location: Madison on May 24, 2008 at 09:42 PM
It's not only about finding their son's killer, but this possible serial killer. Yes you heard me. Have you seen the connections? Joel's family is fighting for the safety of all the citizens of Madison.

Posted by: jeannie Location: wanunakee on May 24, 2008 at 12:47 PM
wow i can't believe that someone would know how long someone should stop hurting over the death of there son. you should be ashamed of yourself. I really hope you have no children. I am so sorry for the family and i hope we can catch how ever is doing this. I will pray for the family

Posted by: Tammy Location: Monroe on May 23, 2008 at 07:01 PM
Until you have walked a mile in someone else's shoes, you have no idea what it must be like to lose a family member so tragically as they have. And, there is no "why" or solution to this murder. Nobody has been arrested and so I can only imagine that this family is having a hard time with closure in this incident. I feel for them and could never judge them for hurting over the death of a loved one in this way.

Posted by: Monique Location: Midwest on May 23, 2008 at 06:47 PM
God bless you, & may He hold you in the palm of His hand as you learn to live life without the love of your life.

Posted by: S on May 23, 2008 at 05:36 PM
I kind of agree with Anon. 05:56pm. This has been the most publicity I have seen in a case. Yes, the man was a fine citizen and a good employee. How many others out there have been murdered and do not get a quarter of the media coverage this case has gotten. It continues the process for these people to keep bringing it up over and over again. I agree with the fact of laying off the police. What do people want them to do? Pick someone off the street and say hey you murdered someone didn't you? This isn't CSI or any other TV show, it is real life people these things take time. If grandma had heard everything or their was a witness why did they wait to come forward? What about what other families have gone thru? Yes, this is a sad case but enough with the media push. How many other families are saying why didn't my case get this much attention? The Drake case was just as bad if not worse and they didn't have this much attention. Doesn't the media have anything else to report?

Posted by: D Location: Madison on May 23, 2008 at 05:17 PM
Amen ANON enough is enough shees they are having a day with all this attention. LET THE PD DO THEIR JOB and the family needs to back off

Posted by: Susan on May 23, 2008 at 05:11 PM
I think it's interesting that Joel's parents are incensed that he was taken to UW Hospital (in fact it sounds as if that's going to be a big part of Greta Van Susteren's show tonight) but his fiancee thinks he was taken to the best possible facility. Bet that's causing some family strife.

Posted by: Joe Friday Location: Madison on May 23, 2008 at 04:18 PM
Anon get a clue! Quit calling them police and using words like job! These are not police and are a insult to the job or shall I say the profession of police work!

Posted by: Anonymous Location: Wisconsin on May 22, 2008 at 09:17 AM
How dare you suggest that you know when this family should begin the healing process! You have no idea what this family has gone through. Too bad for you if you think the time line for grieving has not been appropriate. Shame on you and your insensitive comments. They are asking for answers from public officials, which is completely legitimate. How about you stop giving the family a hard time and let them deal with the horrendous murder of their son and grandson in a way in which they see fit, rather than what you think they should. Back off.

Posted by: Anon Location: Madison on May 21, 2008 at 05:56 PM
This family really needs to start working on the healing process rather than mourning. That faze of the grieving process should be over with by now. And people stop giving the police crap and let them do their job.