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Wednesday, August 13, 2008 --- 11 p.m.

On its opening night a movie that was supposed to be all about laughs is infuriating people across the country.

For one Madison Family the use of the word retard has never been funny and they're giving the movie Tropic Thunder two thumbs down.

For Lexy and Russ Austin the news was shocking. A movie they'd heard so much about is now hitting them where it hurts most.

Lexy says, "When people say it, it's like finger nails on a chalk board."

For the Austins it's the "R-word" refusing to even say the word retard especially around their 4 year old son Mac who has down syndrome.

It's a word drawing a lot of attention for its use in the movie Tropic Thunder. The following is an excerpt.

"There were times when I was doing Jack that I actually felt retarded, like really retarded. In a weird way I had to just free myself up to believe that it was OK to be stupid or dumb, to be a moron."

"You went full retard man. Never go full retard."

The scene is drawing a lot of criticism with the phrase "never go full retard" becoming a focus of some advertisements and t-shirts. In a press kit sent to us by DreamWorks Pictures, the scene is one of only six clips included.

Russ Austin says, "It's one thing to say the word. That's one level, but to actually build a scene around it and then to market it?"

Lexy Austin says, "I have a really good sense of humor. This is not funny. It's not funny to pick on those people that can't defend themselves."

The scene is drawing criticism from many different angles.

Andrea Wipperfurth with the Madison Area Down Syndrome Society says, "Nobody is trying to take away someones summer entertainment but I would ask that people be really thoughtful and mindful about maybe the movies we see and definitely the words we use."

Words that the Austins will tell you, can do a lot of harm when used as slurs and heard by the wrong people.

Those involved with the movie say it's an industry spoof and the scene is not making fun of the disabled but the actors who play them to get ahead.

DreamWorks changed some marketing materials and removed a web site that contained the tag line Once there was a retard, but it did not change the film.

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Posted by: brenda on Aug 19, 2008 at 12:31 PM
I agree the terms are offensive but what happend to admendment rights here? Our constitutional right of free speech is being subjected by our need to be overly protective of everything, and our need to find offense in everything as well? Not seeing the movie if it is offensive to you should be enough. Are you going to go to schools too and be on the streets protecting you're kids from the rude and innapproprite commentary at the playground? come on now! Teaching self esteem will go much farther and trying to control the actions of others. I would not see this movie anyway. But what happened to good old american rights here?

Posted by: Pat Location: Milwaukee on Aug 18, 2008 at 06:01 PM
I do not believe there is much more that can be said which has not already been mentioned. It seems pretty cut and dry to me. Bottom line is using an adjective like retard should be no more acceptable then calling someone a homo, spic, n-word ect. It would be considered socially unacceptable to wear a similar t-shirt referring to any of the slurs just mentioned. I would challenge anyone to put a logical arguement together reasoning why it is O.K. to use the slogan "never go full retard" and put it on a t-shirt. Regardless of weather the term is being used in a malicious manner it is hurtful and deragatory. Until you walk in someone's shoes who deal with this on a daily basis to pass it off as "no big deal" is completely ignorant. To criticize a family for simply trying to educate the public on why using the term is offensive and suggesting that they should be "helping out their son" is even worse... p.s. for the moron that suggested this is a political issue get a clue...

Posted by: v Location: deforest on Aug 18, 2008 at 08:47 AM
This is retarded!

Posted by: Joey Location: Amery on Aug 15, 2008 at 11:23 PM
Fair enough. I'm not a freaking perv, btw. I actually read it quite a few times, not believing what I was reading. I guess I should have kept not believing it. My bad. Still, being offended is not a crime. I'm offended on a daily basis, and that's just part of living in a free country. If the worst that happens to us is being offended, I think we're doin' okay.

Posted by: Dennis Location: Madison on Aug 15, 2008 at 03:17 PM
Joey- do you even have any idea what the hell you're talking about? do you even know what this movie is about? the person who said "when I was doing Jack..." was an actor, and he was ref. the time he acted or "did" Jack as a character! Only a freaking perv would see that as blatantly sexual! Here's a little advice to help you out Joey- Improve your I.Q. 100 points by not posting to things you know nothing about!

Posted by: Joey Location: Amery on Aug 15, 2008 at 12:46 PM
"There were times when I was doing Jack..." Maybe the religious folk should be up-in-arms with this news article for posting blatant sexual references, since we're suddenly so 'harmed' by mere words. If we're going to play this game, let's play it across the board, shall we? Give me a break. It isn't illegal to be offended...yet.

Posted by: A Location: Madison on Aug 15, 2008 at 08:55 AM
Bravo to Lexy and her family! Bravo to nbc for doing this piece. To those who feel the need to criticize...Walk a day in the shoes of a family with special needs and I am certain you will change your tune! This family truly IS doing something to help their son. Families with special needs face challenges every single day that others take for granted...by talking about this movie they are simply bringing awareness of yet another challenge that has been thrown at them. I commend families like this who don't always take the easy path, they stand up for what is right and support their son in a world that is full of people who are quick to criticize, judge, and ridicule. Thank you to Lexy and family!

Posted by: Beg2differ on Aug 15, 2008 at 06:24 AM
I am sorry that the movie uses slurs. It does take away from the comedic effect. But, the wonderful thing about this country is free speech. I personally don't like anomals tortured in movies. So, I just turn off the movie or choose not to watch it in the first place. Life is full of choices. I would choose to move on knowing that you don't agree with the movie. Hopefully the box office ticket sales agree with your standpoint on how it is unacceptable language in todays society.

Posted by: Anita Location: Verona on Aug 15, 2008 at 05:26 AM
I think it absolutely detestable that people signing anonymous sit there & tell this family "get over it"- you prob never met, spoken w/, worked w/, volunteered w/, or interacted w/ a person with a cog disab in your entire life! your words mean nothing if you aren't man or woman enough to own your words by putting your name on them- you are as valid as someone yelling out a car window driving on the beltline. you are all insignificant- & you are the ones looking for the 10 secs of notice since your life off the computer you are nothing to nobody of importance, otherwise you would not feel it necessary to lash out at a decent person standing up for their child, & other people with disabilities! Lexi, hard as it may be please don't let these jerks get to you- their words mean nothing if they don't own them. you owned your words, and they are jealous so they spout childish garbage without their names attached b/c they are afraid of being disapproved of by people who know them!

Posted by: klk Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 11:36 PM
I am truly appalled by some of the comments posted here. To suggest than an educated, involved, happy couple speaking out on behalf of their son is really seeking media attention (on local news in Wisconsin no less) is ludicrous. What action do you suggest taking when something deeply offends you? This country was founded on dissent...thank goodness some of us have the intellectual capacities to work for change.

Posted by: T Location: Beloit on Aug 14, 2008 at 10:23 PM
It is sad that movies have to stoop to using offensive terms in order to make money. I have worked with many children with disabilities and feel the "R-word" is inappropriate. It is one thing to say the word in a movie, but to build a scene around it is unfair. I can understand how many of you feel it is no big deal, but try to put yourselves in the position of the children whom the term hurts. Imagine a child with a disability going to school, one of the places a child should feel safe, and having students using the "R-word" and wearing shirts from the movie with slogans containing the "R-word". The criticism can cause severe damage on a child, even one with a disability. This problem is that this movie is promoting this type of disrespect. I know that we will never be able to stop all of the negativity, but please respect other people. I am not saying that you will be the one to use this word to harm another, but someone will.

Posted by: RJW Location: Town of Harmony on Aug 14, 2008 at 05:57 PM
It is a Movie. We can not be offened by every word. Come on all You Liberals. Leave the silent majority alone.

Posted by: Anon Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 04:37 PM
I can not believe that this was a headline article. This family appears to be so offended then maybe they should just not go to the movies anymore, because in todays entertainment industry that sort of language is everywhere. I think these people need to tough it up and quit whining about this. Ohh my god the "R-word"!!

Posted by: Hooray Location: madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 04:27 PM
cry about it- good for you! maybe if everybody who was offended by something somebody in hollywood used as an insult, there wouldn't be any gang killings like when colors came out, or teenage killings due to the movie natural born killers, and Jerry Falwell could have disney destroyed for the graphic sex references in all their movies- let's see- the movie crash pretty much insulted every minority in the u.s.- the mighty ducks insulted everyone with an i.q. over 2 points, so you go right ahead and do your thing because of your fat relatives- and don't forget to get the pilsbury dough boy banned too, since people keep poking him in his little chubber rounded tummy!

Posted by: Mandy Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 03:32 PM
To all the families with family members living with a disability, no matter what it is- cognitive, physical, sensory- God bless. Lexi and family, I for one will not be spending any money to make this film financially successful, nor will my family or friends. For those of you who say "get over it", I guess you think rape is funny too, huh? I wonder how many of you would dare to wear a t-shirt that says "never go full n**ger"! probably not a single one of you! Look at all the bashing Latisha took for bringing race into a posting on the beloit murders! where are those people who thought she was a racist for accusing the murdered woman for being a "two timing white woman"? funny how when it comes to picking on individuals with cognitive disabilities (who come in every race/ color/ sexual orientation/ nationality/ religious belief) no one is ready to stick up for them, instead it is just "get over it". whatever, you all suck! Lexi, God bless & hi to your son!

Posted by: Selwyn Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 03:26 PM
It's really sad to see the number of posts here that support intolerance. People and families with cognitive disabilities are entitled to the same level as respect as people who are part of a minority group. As a minority I can tell you that racial slurs and slurs against the cognitively disabled are equal in their negative effect. Whether it's the R-word or the N-word, neither is appropriate. The way I see it, Lexy is actually helping her son by standing up for him against intolerance. Her family's stand for all people with cognitive disabilities is one to be admired. If you are one of the people who told her to "get over it", I challenge you to spend some time with a person or family affected by cognitive disabilities. Please take some time to see it from our perspective before you cast your judgements.

Posted by: D Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 02:35 PM
Some people will do anything to get 10 seconds of media attention, sheesh. if they didnt like it nothing was stoping them from leaving...some people really need to get lives

Posted by: b Location: madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 01:57 PM
Why don't you spend your time actually helping your son. Instead of trying to save the world. Seriously people in this world have real problems. You should not let a stupid word bother you this much. Just do yourself a favor and move on already. You're son will have a great life, and stupid words are not going to change that.

Posted by: Lexy Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 01:23 PM
To those of you who say it is not that big of a deal obviously don't have a child with a cognitive disability. And furthermore, they have taken it further by printing T-shirts and posters with derogatory slurs. We are not against free speech - but just b/c there is free speech we don't go around saying the N-word. We aren't "getting over it" because we have to stand up for our son - and the others who don't have a voice.

Posted by: E Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 01:13 PM
*Stacy Says* "This type of blatant discrimination wouldn't be tolerated against any other minority group" Are you kidding me!?! That’s laughable

Posted by: cry about it on Aug 14, 2008 at 01:04 PM
I have fat family members so now I'm going to start bashing on all the movies that make fun of fat people. Boohoo!!

Posted by: Eldon Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 12:16 PM
Get over it. It’s a movie! They are not taking a personal stab at your family. Movies sometimes use inappropriate items in them. I hope you know there are plenty of other movies that have done the same thing you have described here but worse. Some of top movies of all time use words that spark controversy. I’m sorry to say but that’s the whole point of movies.

Posted by: Jeanne Location: Missouri on Aug 14, 2008 at 11:53 AM
I have friends with a downs son and would never want him to hear this word spoken let alone publicly broadcast. Do Unto Others...

Posted by: Stacy Location: Janesville on Aug 14, 2008 at 11:24 AM
Thank you for highlighting this issue and sharing the Austin's story. I also have a son with cognitive disabilities and it frustrates me that discrimination against this group of people in the form of "comedy" is accepted. This type of blatant discrimination wouldn't be tolerated against any other minority group. People with disabilities need our support, not our ridicule.

Posted by: Linda Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 09:54 AM
The saying, "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt us", isn't true, Anyone who has been called names knows this. I would like to suggest to Dreamworks and Ben Stiller to make their next movie about compassion.

Posted by: V Location: deforest on Aug 14, 2008 at 09:27 AM
oh my god! Let it go people! no that big of a deal!

Posted by: b Location: madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 09:14 AM
Get over it. If you don't like it, don't watch it.

Posted by: JJ on Aug 14, 2008 at 08:42 AM
Live with it, hollywood's going to use it if you like it or not... I have tourettes syndrome and that is one of the most made fun of illnesses, in a totally inaccurate way. You just got to shrug it off, its just going to keep coming no matter what you do.

Posted by: Anonymous on Aug 14, 2008 at 07:47 AM
there are many movies that contain raunch and filth, degrading many different demographics, why is this receiving so much attention, get over it!

Posted by: Selwyn Location: Madison on Aug 14, 2008 at 06:29 AM
As a parent of a cognitively disabled child I can tell you first hand the discrimination and harassment you and your child receive. From insults like, "you just need to parent your kids better," to outright hostility-- it happens today. As a minority, I can also tell you that using a slur like the R-word is equally as devastating as any racial slur. Unlike racism, this kind of -ism doesn't have the same legal protection-- hate crime laws do not apply to crimes against the cognitively disabled. Unfortunately I learned this the hard way-- having to defend my child against an ongoing, hate-filled incident. We do not need movies legitimizing this kind of behavior for others to model. Instead we need people to take a stand against this kind of discrimination.

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